Good Means Good
I was watching the news today (big mistake, I know), and I heard some pundits discussing a recent tragedy on a U.S. college campus. Seems a young couple (“roommates”) secretly filmed a young colleague’s private behind-closed-doors behavior and disseminated the video on the internet. The young man who was targeted became despondent and committed suicide. Since he was (as I understand it) a gay kid, the pundits I saw were talking about whether or not the couple should be prosecuted for a hate crime.
Personally, I have no view on that… I think all real crime comes from a hateful place within the perpetrator. What caught my attention was how these news personalities went on about what a tragedy it was for all three of the families. Obviously, they said, the victim’s family is devastated. But what a tragedy it also is for the two perpetrators and their families, they proclaimed. After all, the young woman was such a “good student” (I heard these words repeatedly) and the young man was such a “good musician.” And now their lives, too, have been devastated, and their families dragged into tragedy.
Hmm.
That sentiment seems OK, as far as it goes. Of course, one’s heart goes out to all three families. But mine does not particularly go out to the cyber-bullies, and I don’t think they deserve the descriptor “good.”






